Dont really like reunion dinner these days. Taking reunion dinner must go with the right person, the atmosphere will then be right, we could then enjoy the dinner. 和 对 的 人 吃 饭 才 会 有 对 的 气 氛，吃 了 才 会 有 味。 After dinner and New Year, 每 个 人 又 变 成 了 莫 生 人。
Since the passing of my beloved hubby and my father-in-law, the atmosphere at my mother-in-law house seemed to be changing every year. The atmosphere is stiffed. The so called ‘brother-in-law’ and ‘sister-in-law’ (my ....in-law) could not get along with each other and for the last two years, the dinner was not enjoyable at all.
After marriage for seventeen years, I never have reunion dinner with my mum. She is already old. This year, perhaps I should have the courage to ask for excuse .......
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Friday, January 25, 2008
Finally She got into RP!
Dreams finally come true!
My daughter got her O level result yesterday. Not bad lah! Finally the admission to RP was confirmed thru the direct admission scheme. She will be starting her PPP programme next Monday and wish her all the best in the next endeavour! 加油 加油 加油
My daughter got her O level result yesterday. Not bad lah! Finally the admission to RP was confirmed thru the direct admission scheme. She will be starting her PPP programme next Monday and wish her all the best in the next endeavour! 加油 加油 加油
Monday, January 21, 2008
Last week got so many happenings at home….... First on Thursday, my room TV got an ‘explosion’ and the smoke came out from the TV. The best thing was the screen still feature the TV show and my daughter at a moment did not realized the TV has an internal ‘explosion’. What a frightening moment!!
旧的不去，新的不来. Last Saturday, we bought a new branded LCD TV 32’ for $999/. Should be quite worth it.
On Sunday morning, a close relative was doing something that has destroyed all our relationship. She was accusing my daughter and challenging her to an act, which I think a mature adult will not do it. In the first place, it was some accusation between the cousins, but once the adult stepped in, the situation will be totally different.
I told my daughter she has to learn from the lesson. In the first place, she may also be wrong to post their ‘wrong actions’ in her blog which of course when the person read it, will instantly be angry. But there is a saying, 若要人不知，除非己么为。 Actions speak more than words. If a person does not have a ‘wrong act’, he/she will not create wrong impression to others.
For that, I also sacrificed one new winter jacket. I lent it out to a senior relative and this relative initiated to bring it for dry washing. But more than two months has passed, my new jacket was still dont know whereabout. For me, I already regarded my new winter jacket as ‘lost’.
Whatever it is, let's bygone be bygone. As long as we know where and when to put a stop, then we are ok. Children, learn something from this lesson and see other people's behaviours as a mirror for our reflexion.
旧的不去，新的不来. Last Saturday, we bought a new branded LCD TV 32’ for $999/. Should be quite worth it.
On Sunday morning, a close relative was doing something that has destroyed all our relationship. She was accusing my daughter and challenging her to an act, which I think a mature adult will not do it. In the first place, it was some accusation between the cousins, but once the adult stepped in, the situation will be totally different.
I told my daughter she has to learn from the lesson. In the first place, she may also be wrong to post their ‘wrong actions’ in her blog which of course when the person read it, will instantly be angry. But there is a saying, 若要人不知，除非己么为。 Actions speak more than words. If a person does not have a ‘wrong act’, he/she will not create wrong impression to others.
For that, I also sacrificed one new winter jacket. I lent it out to a senior relative and this relative initiated to bring it for dry washing. But more than two months has passed, my new jacket was still dont know whereabout. For me, I already regarded my new winter jacket as ‘lost’.
Whatever it is, let's bygone be bygone. As long as we know where and when to put a stop, then we are ok. Children, learn something from this lesson and see other people's behaviours as a mirror for our reflexion.
Monday, January 14, 2008
Happy New Year 2008
It's new year again! Time flies.
Happy New Year and hope everyone has good health, happiness and prosperity.
December 2007 was a busy month to complete my year 2007! Besides the busy work flow every day due to the peak festive seasons, I went holiday to Taiwan, and after which, was busy helping to prepare my nephew's wedding.
Christmas and New Year day just passed by me so fast. I have not much energy to react and think what to do in the New Year 2008.
Passing the New Year, I went to Kuching, Sarawak on 04 Jan 2008 with my mum, brother, sister, sister-in-law and uncle, auntie to attend my nephew's wedding dinner again ( his wife is from Kuching ) and also tour around the Kuching town for 4 days 3 nights.
Back home now, and realised that Chinese New Year is around the corner and is busy again to do 'spring cleaning' and shopping...........
Wow! my time just passed so fast each day. Hope I could share some of the photos in my next blog.
Happy New Year and hope everyone has good health, happiness and prosperity.
December 2007 was a busy month to complete my year 2007! Besides the busy work flow every day due to the peak festive seasons, I went holiday to Taiwan, and after which, was busy helping to prepare my nephew's wedding.
Christmas and New Year day just passed by me so fast. I have not much energy to react and think what to do in the New Year 2008.
Passing the New Year, I went to Kuching, Sarawak on 04 Jan 2008 with my mum, brother, sister, sister-in-law and uncle, auntie to attend my nephew's wedding dinner again ( his wife is from Kuching ) and also tour around the Kuching town for 4 days 3 nights.
Back home now, and realised that Chinese New Year is around the corner and is busy again to do 'spring cleaning' and shopping...........
Wow! my time just passed so fast each day. Hope I could share some of the photos in my next blog.
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